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How to Talk About Climate Change with Skeptical Family Members

Many of us enjoy social gatherings with loved ones, filled with good food and meaningful connections. However, these occasions can sometimes lead to challenging conversations, particularly when discussing climate change. You might encounter differing viewpoints, such as skepticism about the scientific consensus or the severity of the issue.

If these potential disagreements cause you anxiety, remember that there are constructive ways to approach these conversations. Here’s how to navigate climate change discussions while maintaining respect, fostering understanding, and potentially inspiring positive change.

1. Start by Listening: Understand Their Perspective

Before diving in with climate facts, take a moment to listen. Everyone has reasons for their beliefs, and understanding where they’re coming from can make a big difference. For instance, some people may fear climate action will disrupt their way of life, while others might feel overwhelmed by the scale of the problem. Listening also gives you insights into how best to respond and shows respect for their views, which can reduce defensiveness.

When Lance Lawson, a young climate advocate, talked to his skeptical father, he started by connecting with his dad’s values. Instead of diving into data, he discussed caring for the Earth as part of their shared faith. Finding that common ground helped make their conversations constructive.

2. Avoid Overwhelming with Facts: Small Points Stick Better

It can be tempting to flood them with evidence, but research shows that overwhelming someone with facts often backfires, making them even more resistant. Instead, try introducing just one or two key points, and ask questions that make them think.

Sander van der Linden, a social psychologist, recommends a gentle approach, like asking, “Have you thought about how misinformation on climate benefits certain industries?” This can encourage curiosity without making them feel attacked.

3. Recognize Emotional Barriers Behind Climate Skepticism

Many climate skeptics are dealing with emotional barriers rather than a lack of information. Denial can stem from fear, anxiety, or simply the discomfort of thinking about such a vast issue. For some, acknowledging climate change means confronting lifestyle changes or accepting uncomfortable truths.

Acknowledging these emotional barriers helps you approach the conversation with empathy. You might say, “I understand how overwhelming it can feel. I feel it too sometimes,” which can make them feel heard instead of judged.

4. Stay Calm and Respectful: Tone Matters More Than You Think

Getting defensive or frustrated is a quick way to end a productive conversation. By keeping a calm, respectful tone, you make it easier for the other person to stay open. Remember that even mild frustration can come across as condescending or judgmental. Climate activist Abbie Richards recommends not giving credibility to extreme denial. Focus on people who might be open to learning, as they’re more likely to shift their thinking with the right approach.

5. Spot Common Misinformation Tactics and Call Them Out Politely

Climate denial groups often use strategic misinformation to cast doubt. For example, they might say that “climate change is happening, but it’s not caused by humans” or that it’s “not urgent.” These tactics are designed to create confusion, not to invite real debate.

If you spot these tactics, calmly mention that certain talking points may be more about profit and politics than real science. You could say, “It’s interesting how some of these ideas are linked to industries with a lot to gain from denying climate science”.

6. Focus on Small Wins: Change Takes Time

Trying to change someone’s mind overnight is often unrealistic. Instead, aim for small wins—an open question here, a point of common ground there. According to van der Linden, it’s better to focus on gradually planting seeds of doubt about misinformation rather than expecting an immediate change.

Small, positive changes in conversation make it more likely they’ll think about the topic later on. You might agree to discuss a single climate-friendly action you both can get behind, like conserving energy or supporting local food sources, even if you don’t agree on the whole issue.

7. Know When to Pause: Sometimes, It’s Best to Agree to Disagree

If the conversation is going nowhere, it’s okay to step back. Not everyone is open to changing their perspective, and sometimes the holiday table isn’t the place for heavy debates. Climate advocate Gail Whiteman advises focusing on those who are open to conversation instead of exhausting yourself trying to convince hardline deniers.

Shifting the conversation to a lighter topic doesn’t mean giving up; it just means saving your energy for those willing to engage constructively. After all, the holidays are a time to connect and celebrate—not to wear each other down.

Final Thoughts: Start the Conversation, Plant the Seeds

Talking about climate change with skeptical family members might feel challenging, but every respectful conversation makes a difference. By staying calm, empathetic, and informed, you can help open the door to a shift in perspective. And who knows? You might be surprised by the conversations you start and the curiosity you spark.


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